As I pointed out in a previous blog post, the majority of us will die without a Will in place. According to Gallup News, "Americans' likelihood of having a will depends largely on their age and socioeconomic status. Sixty-eight percent of those aged 65 and older have a will, compared with just 14% of those younger than age 30. Of Americans whose annual household income is $75,000 or greater, 55% have a will, compared with 31% of those with incomes of less than $30,000. And nonwhite adults (28%) are about half as likely as white adults (51%) to have a will."
Yes, death is an uncomfortable subject but if you want to make sure your affairs are taken care of properly, it is a conversation you must have with family and/or friends (if you have no living relatives or any you want involved in handling your estate).
Here are some suggestions to consider:
Designate someone to be in charge of handling your insurance policies, annuities, bank accounts, etc. It could be a lawyer or loved one. Make sure all of your account information can be accessed and you have designated beneficiaries. If you've been contemplating making changes to your beneficiaries, make sure you do so while you still have the capacity to do so.
If you become critically (or terminally) ill and can no longer take care of yourself, do you want to remain in your home with the help of a caregiver or do you want to be moved to Hospice or a nursing home?
Do you want to be cremated or buried? That's important to know because there is a major expense difference between the two. Do you already have a plot picked out or is there a family plot or will one have to be purchased?
If you choose burial, be clear on the cemetery of choice. Maybe you want to go back to your hometown. If you opt for cremation, what do you want done with your ashes?
When my daughter's father passed away last year, she was his only living relative other than his brother (who couldn't be located for several days). He left no Will so, since she was responsible for the expenses with the funeral home, she chose cremation because it was cheaper.
Do you want a church service with a public viewing of your remains or do you want a private memorial for just family and close friends. Do you want your funeral to have a theme? Perhaps, you'd like everyone to come dressed in 1970's attire. (If you're cremated you can have a memorial at any time of the year). Perhaps you don't want anything at all. If that's the case, make it known so you can spare your family from conflict---because believe me, there will be conflict when an older loved one dies, especially if there's money and other valuables involved.
If there's someone else not mentioned here that you'd like to share as a suggestion for your death wish, please feel free to do so,
